Pakistan; Follows a very unique and different culture of upbringing when it comes to kids. The children don’t have the “Ultimate Freedom” to hang out and enjoy, and as per the West the children in the sub-continent “Don’t have a life”. The parents will always keep a much enlarged distance from their child (As is in most cases) and would still wonder what they did wrong in his upbringing.
It’s very strange and horrible to see when a child gets grounded for speaking the word “Sex”. I can relate an incident where my young cousin once on the dinner table asked me if I had watched “Sex in the city 2?” My uncle leapt up and in the most terrifying voice ordered him to go lock himself up in the room for a week! He later when the deserts were getting served said sorry on his behalf, while I could only stare in astonishment.
Our culture is in the deepest of crime, and when the child does not receives proper information about sex from his parents he goes up on the internet and types the words in… That’s were hell breaks loose, a decent, well nurtured child falls in the por* sector, which destroys his internal yet external capacities. A boy starts to view women as an object of use and the girl vice versa.[junkie-alert style=”white”] The young generation is in real deep trouble [/alert]
This is truly the last hour for our change. They are ashamed, vulnerable to any such content they can find like in a blink. Por* addiction mind me is not joke it’s real. While attending a lecture of Wael Ibrahim, A scholar working really hard for the eradication por* addiction, He related an incident in which he treated a man who was addicted to por* for like forty-eight years! This is no joke; he was exposed to it at ten and continued it through his university, marriage life and later when his own daughter caught her! And he was got a divorce! He got help alright but the aftermath is unchangeable.
The real problem, starts from the real basic, where the parents are to blame! Yes your mother and daddy. It’s true that talking to your own kin about such a thing would be very strange and awkward but it can be done in the most decent manner. And it’s truly for the long run, for the sake of your own children! A friend of mine told his parents that he was addicted to Por*; the enraged parents beat the crap out of him and removed the internet. Such was his condition that he literally went to dolmen every day at seven, straight to the bathroom with a good WIFI signal and came back an hour later.
A human is a manikin of errors, but this was really not the way to deal with it. It completely worsened it up. I believe it’s late but not the end; it can be controlled, as per statistics every one in three is exposed to such content! It’s truly the time to change the way of thinking!
By Talha Ahmed Wajeeh. The writer is an addict to words not drugs, A City School Student, Has a cricket Phobia and is in love with Allah. He tweets as @Talha_ZAKH